The luckiest man

Reflecting on feeling like the luckiest man alive
May 12, 2025
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The luckiest man:

The luckiest man.

I feel like the luckiest man alive.

Done so much.

Accomplished so much.

Experienced so much.

Traveled so much.

Learned so much.


Read so much.

Moved so much.

Lived so much.

I feel like I’ve lived lifetimes.

Been lucky enough to experience more than people will in one life.

Let alone multiple.

Almost all of it is because of my parents.

Because of the circumstances I was born into.

Because of my environment.

Because of who I grew up around.

Because of role models.

Because of good teachers.

Because of good people.

I got lucky.

Super lucky.

Did I work hard too?

Absolutely.

But I only got that drive from my parents.

From my genetics.

From my environment.


That was built into me from a young age.

I didn’t know any different.

None of us do.

I just got to be the luckiest of them all.

Someone brought up with all the right circumstances.

Eldest child in an immigrant household that prioritized education.

Good public school system with good teachers and role models.

Parents who showed me the world when I was a kid.

Went to every continent except Antarctica by the time I was 21.

No one gets to live that.

I did.

Then had parents who prioritized looking abroad for university.

That’s a privilege very few are able to afford.

I got lucky.

Went to medical school in Scotland for 6 years.

Graduated as a doctor.

Then left it all.

To pursue a career I didn’t know about in an industry I barely knew existed.

Did that in Amsterdam, Montreal and Toronto.

For 7 years.

During that time, got to travel the world.

Did 44 flights last year.

Along the way, I’ve seen almost every major artist in cities across the globe.

Very few people get to do that.

Then I ended up here.

Writing after what feels like forever about how lucky I am.

How privileged I am.

How fortunate I am.

I wish everyone got this.

But they can’t.


That’s not how life works.

So you have to do the best with what you’ve got.

Play the cards you’re dealt as best as you can.

Does that mean we’re all going to be rich, successful and famous?

Absolutely not.


But does it mean we can try to be a better person tomorrow?

Absolutely.

That’s up to us.

Small decisions.

Small choices.

Baby steps.

If you take baby steps for yourself, eventually you’ll create your own luck.

I had people who taught me that when I was growing up.

I saw it in front of me.

People who worked hard, achieved something with their life and created their own luck.

Charted their own path out of nowhere.

That’s what I’m trying to do too.

Use my luck to create more luck.

Even though I’m already the luckiest man.

'Keep Going You're Doing Great'

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