The Art of the Good Life
Rolf Dobelli
Summary
Timeless lessons from a great investor on living a good life
Rating: 4/5
Notes
Do some mental accounting (if you buy some thing, add 50% for income tax)
All partnerships have to be constantly nurtured
‘The good life is only achieved through constant readjustment’
Flexibility makes you unhappy and tired and it distracts you from your goals. For certain principles, stay un-flexible
Accepting reality is easy when you like what you see, but you have to accept it even when you don’t - especially when you don’t
‘If you don’t deal with reality, then reality will deal with you’ - Alex Haley
If it doesn’t genuinely contribute something, you can do without it. That’s double true for technology
Instead of looking for the upside, systemically eliminate the downside in your life
Remind yourself that everything you are, everything you ave and can do is the result of blind chance
Introspection is nothing but a job interview w/ yourself - highly unreliable. What you should be exploring instead is your past
‘All those who summon you to themselves turn you away from yourself’ - Seneca
Invest more in experiences than physical objects
Eastern paradox: once basic needs have been met, incremental financial gain contributes nothing to happiness
Money is relative, not just in comparison to other but in comparison to your past
A single outstanding skills trumps a thousand mediocre ones
‘You don’t have to be brilliant. Only a little bit wiser than the average guy for a long long time’ - Munger
Your focus should always be on the activity, the work, the input - not the success, the result or the output
Understand that public perception has little to do with the quality of one’s work
Avoid situation in which you have to change other people - you won’t
Don’t avoid making a long term plan, but focus on the now
Make the most of your present experiences instead of worrying about future memories
The brain reasons facts into memories through a compact, consistent and causal story
Don’t be surprised when someone judges you incorrectly - you do the same to yourself
There’s no point in being unhappy just because you were once unhappy
If you don’t make it clear on the outside what you believe deep down, you gradually turn into a puppet
Determine what you can influence and what you can’t. Address the former. Don’t let the latter prey on your mind
Envy has a bigger impact on your life satisfaction than physical affliction or financial ruin and you need to learn to manage it
To solve envy, stop comparing yourself to others but rather to your past self
Wisdom is prevention
‘A clever person solves a person. A wise person avoids it’ Einstein
You’re not responsible for the state of the world
Focus, time and money are our 3 most important resources
Mental subtraction: instead of thinking of all the things you don’t have, consider how much you’d miss the things you do have if you lost them
Don’t put anyone on a pedestal, last of all yourself
Accept unfairness in the world as a fact
The less you expect, the happier you’ll be
Sturgeon’s law: 90% of anything published in any genre is crap
View your own importance from the perspective of the next century - your name will mean nothing
Material success is 100% a matter of chance
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Make Something Wonderful
Steve Jobs
Summary
The life of Steve Jobs in his own words
Rating: 5/5
Notes
Make something wonderful and put it out there
‘You appear, have a chance to blaze in the sky, then you disappear’
When you’re a stranger in a place, you notice thing you don’t otherwise (Jobs after India trip)
Whenever you start with nothing, always shoot for the moon. You have nothing to lose.
You never achieve what you want without falling on your face a few times
Never be afraid to fail. You never achieve what you want without falling flat on your face a few times
We are never taught to listen to our intuitions, to develop and nurture them. But if you do pay attention to these subtle insights, you can make them come true
Creativity equals connecting previously unrelated experiences and insights others don’t see
Believe that some of what you follow with your heart will come back and make your life richer. And it will. And you will gain even firmer trust on your instincts and intuitions
Make your avocation your vocation. Make what you love your work.
The journey is the reward. The reward isn’t in the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, it’s in crossing the rainbow
To find A+ talent, if experienced, look at their track record and results
The world we know is a human creation and we can push it forward
The people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world are the ones who do (read whole ad ‘here’s to the crazy ones)
We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then is not an act but a habit - Aristotle
Hire people better than you are
You can’t plan to meet the people who will change your life
It’s impossible to connect the dots looking forward, but they make sense looking backwards so you have to trust the dots will somehow connect in your future
Everything around you that you call life was made up by people no smarter than you
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