Day 1717 - Jun.11.23 - Ghosting

Ghosted. The ability to disappear from someone’s life instantaneously. To cut off all contact. To make someone disappear from your life. It’s so easy. So quick to just delete someone just because you were feeling shit or they said one wrong thing that doesn’t agree with you or dismisses you based on where the stars and moon are tonight. It’s crazy. But it’s also their loss. I’m living an awesome life and going somewhere. I want to be with someone who wants to build that and go somewhere together. That person is out there, I know it. The path to finding myself will show me the right person at the right time. I know it. Doesn’t mean online dating gets any easier. Doesn’t mean it still doesn’t hurt when someone dismisses you and your character. But that’s life. That’s what these apps have created. That’s the way the world works these days. It’s a necessary evil that is such a time suck and drains your energy. How many more talking stages and first conversations do I want to be a part of? It sucks and I feel for people out there but trust the process. Do things you like. Follow your hobbies and passions. You see someone in those circumstances, talk to them, be upfront and see where it goes. Doesn’t mean ghosting gets any easier.

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