They don’t care:

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They don’t care.

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They don’t care about you.

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They don’t give a shit about you.

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Burn that into your brain.

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If you disappeared tomorrow, they wouldn’t care.

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They’d be upset in the moment then they’d move on.

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They’re not thinking about you.

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They’re thinking about themselves.

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They’re selfish.

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We’re all selfish.

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We all prioritize ourselves more than others.

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In certain situations that’s right.

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In others, it’s not.

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When you’re meeting people, ask about them.

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Be curious.

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Learn about them.

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Learn about who they are.

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Learn about their story.

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Understand their background.

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Understand how they got here.

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Understand what makes them tick.

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You can’t do that if you’re stuck in your head thinking about yourself

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Stop being so selfish.

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Stop thinking you’re the only person that matters.

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We all walk around with an invisible sign on our chest saying ‘See me’.

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We all want to be seen.

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We all want to be acknowledged.

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We all want to be understood.

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Most people won’t do that for you.

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Most people don’t care.

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Most people don’t give a shit about you.

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So stop waiting.

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Stop waiting for someone else to validate you.

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Stop waiting for someone else to accept you.

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Stop waiting for someone else to make you happy.

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Show up, love yourself and ask people about themselves.

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Be curious.

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Be present.

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Be loving.

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But know that.

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They don’t care.

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