You won’t be everybody’s cup of tea:

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You won’t be everybody’s cup of tea.

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People like tea in different ways.

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Hot.

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Iced.

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With milk.

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Without it.

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Super sweet.

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Super bland.

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Green vs. English vs. vs. lemon vs. mint etc.

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There are so many ways to have tea.

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People have their own preferences.

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Sometimes they’ll like it.

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Other times they won’t.

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Sometimes they’ll like you.

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Other times they won’t.

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It’s hard dating these days.

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Feels like you can never find your cup of tea.

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Or you think you found it and it wasn’t reciprocated.

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Dates gone nowhere.

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People you vibed with who didn’t feel the same way.

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It’s tough.

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You have to remember, you won’t be everyone’s favourite.

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You’re not supposed to be.

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The goal is to find someone who likes you for who you are.

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Who likes your type of tea.

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That person is out there.

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At least that’s what I tell myself.

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Problem is we move on from teas so quickly.

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Because there’s always more tea available.

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Right?

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In our parents days, they married who was in close proximity.

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Someone who lived close or went to the same church or was in the same classes or lived in the same neighbourhood.

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Met and that was it.

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Today, the world is your oyster.

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You can be in a relationship with anyone from anywhere.

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So if you find someone and you don’t like one thing about them, you can just move on.

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Because there are always other options right?

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I’m not sure.

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Feels like it’s harder to find your cup of tea these days.

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Gotta keep putting yourself out there.

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Doing your thing.

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Pursuing what you like.

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And someone will come at the right time.

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Remember, rejections are just two people who weren’t meant to be together.

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It means you’re one step closer to finding your person.

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To finding your tea.

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You won’t be everyone’s cup of tea.

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You’re not supposed to be.

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Be you.

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