Day 246 – May.11.19 - Friends from childhood vs. university

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Didn’t write last night because I was out w/ **** and ****.Was a pretty solid night and got really drunk. Always a little strange coming back and partying with friends because I’ve known these guys for longer than my uni friends, but it feels in some ways I have a deeper relationship with my uni friends because they watched me grow up and saw me at my worst. That being said, I think it’s just different relationships because obviously I consider both of them very close. Friendships at the end of the day are shared experiences and the more time you spend with them, the better you know them. Especially living with people because then you really see them for who they are. I’m so grateful I met the people in St. Andrews because they will always be my brothers. The bond we had, no matter where I go in my life, will always be strong. That time together was so priceless and I’m so interested to see where we end up and how we develop into adults. Because we’re all so different and I can’t wait till we see each other when we’ve all made it. That trip to Galapagos with **** and ***** is definitely happening. I think it’s also important to make the effort and continue to see those guys, at least once a year if possible. Just have to plan in advance and make sure I don’t neglect those relationships. A lot of new people are about to come into my life and I wonder if I’m ever going to make another really close friend. I think if I had a neighbour or lived with someone that I got on with really well, maybe. But it’s hard to see that happening. That being said, I can’t shut myself off from anything because friends will change and evolve over time. You’re eventually going to have your partner’s friends, couple friends and families you travel with and it’s all going to change. Before I know it, that’s going to be me. It’s important to stay in the moment and be grateful for where you’ve gotten to but also what lies ahead. It’s somewhat scary but I’m also so looking forward to what’s to come. The fact you’re a 23-year-old doctor who’s made it in the VC world is an accomplishment and a path that not many people get the chance to experience. You’re really living a 1% life and you have to make sure you enjoy it every step of the way.

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