No one is out there to save you:

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No one is out there to save you.

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No one.

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We want to believe there is.

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Some partner.

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Or colleague.

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Or friend.

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Or random person we meet on the street.

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That there’s this individual who’s going to come rescue you from this struggle you find yourself in.

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That doesn’t exist.

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A lot of that goes back to religion.

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Believing in god.

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This one divine thing that keeps you motivated and gives you purpose.

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If that’s you, all the power to you.

Religion can be a great enabler.

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It can give you purpose and drive to be closer to god.

Or whatever story you want to tell yourself.

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If that gets you up off your ass and doing stuff, great.

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For a lot of people, they want a masculine figure.

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A tough coach.

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Or a kick in the butt.

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Sadly those people are gone these days.

We’re all too sensitive.

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Too careful about our feelings.

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Always wanting to be politically correct.

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Towing a line.

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But sometimes you need tough love.

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Sometimes you need to be told you’re doing a shit job.

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You’re a shit person who’s doing nothing in the world.

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You need to hear that sometimes.

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So now you can improve.

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Now you can start.

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Now you can begin your journey.

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Every day is a new day.

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A new day to try.

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To attempt.

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To fail.

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To pick yourself off your ass and go do something.

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I guarantee you this.

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If you do this and wait a year, you will change your life forever.

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Go read as many old famous books as possible.

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Look up the most famous books in Western civilization.

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Read them, or listen to them.

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Here’s a free website that has tons of free non-fiction audiobooks (here).

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You’re welcome.

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Also, get exercise 3-4 times a week.

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Even a walk is good enough.

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Leave the rest of your life the same if you want.

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But commit to those things.

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A year from now, you’ll have completely reinvented your body, learned a ton about how modern world came to be and see yourself in a brand new light.

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Trust me, it works.

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Men need that.

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Women need that.

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You need to stop feeling sorry yourself.

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Stop letting your phone distract you.

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Stop letting Netflix and your negative influences keep you down.

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You need to take charge of your life.

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Hold yourself accountable.

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No one else will.

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Not a single soul.

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So be reliant on you.

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Because no one is coming to save you.

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So go save you.

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