The allure of the unknown:

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The allure of the unknown.

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Wanting something you don’t have.

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Coming up with ideas of it.

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How great it is.

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How amazing it could be.

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What your future could be like.

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Only you don’t have it.

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The actions you’ve seen do not give you a good feeling.

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You like the idea of it rather than the thing itself.

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Meanwhile, there are a few other things you do have that are great.

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Solid.

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Secure.

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Stable.

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Good things.

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Kind.

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Care about you.

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And yet, you can’t help.

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Can’t help but look away.

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Look to the next thing.

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As if it will be better than what you have.

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This is modern-day dating.

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Always thinking there’s better.

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There’s someone else out there.

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Some pretty girl who’s going to solve all your problems.

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When that doesn’t exist.

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They won’t even see you.

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Literally.

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Dating apps are tough. 

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It’s rough out there.

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I need to get out of this head space.

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Get away from this chase.

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This idea of the unknown.

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Of what you think someone could be.

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Just because they check a few boxes in your head.

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Look at what someone has shown you.

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Look at their actions.

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Actions speak, words don’t.

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Don’t you want that long-term?

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If so, then commit.

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Jump.

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Decide.

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Stop looking elsewhere thinking better will come along.

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It might.

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But it also might not.

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You can’t keep searching forever.

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When you see how good a person is in front of you, commit to it.

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Decide.

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Be with what’s known.

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Stop chasing the allure of the unknown.

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